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In This Issue: December, 2008
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  1. The latest about Joe Kort's psychotherapy and coaching Practice
  2. 2009 Workshops
  3. 2009 Presentations
  4. What do you get when you cross a therapist and a comedian?
  5. Book Recommendation: Male Sexuality
  6. Joe's Books & Products (Recorded Teleclasses, Mp3's, Auto-Responders)

1. The latest about Joe Kort's Psychotherapy and Coaching Practice

Hello Kort's Korner Subscribers,

My website, www.joekort.com, has a new look. Tell me what you think of it?
 
I hope you find it more user friendly as I have many resources including articles, mp3's, workshops, teleclasses and book recommendations.

Having a Social Work background, I have always wanted to be a resource to people and guide them to the right people and places for the help they required. My website reflects my personal and professional knowledge in terms of getting people the right and most accurate information.

Warmly,

Joe Kort, LMSW


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Joe's Blogs

Straight Guise BlogA blog about straight men who have sex with other men. Therapists and female partners can also benefit from reading the material on this site.

Outside the Kort RoomA blog about current events, books, workshops, articles, movies and anything related to my specialties within my private practice.

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Joe's Other WEBSITES

Gay Affirmative Therapy: A website for therapists working with gays and lesbians.

Straight Guise: A website resource for straight men who have sex with men. Therapists and female partners can also benefit from reading the material on this site.

 

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Joe's Psychotherapy Practice and Coaching

2. 2009 Workshops

 

Heterosexual Couples

Weekend Workshop

JANUARY 24-25, 2009

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Gay and Lesbian Couples

Weekend Workshop

April 4-5, 2009 

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Reclaiming the Man in the Mirror

A Workshop on sex, love and intimacy for gay/bisexual men

May 2-3, 2000

(Listen to a free audio about this workshop at http://www.joekortclasses.com/default.asp?id=3117)

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To register click here

3. 2009 Presentations

 

32nd Annual Networker Symposium


5135 MacArthur Blvd., N.W., Washington, DC 20016


March 26th - 29th, 2008

 

1. Sexual Disorientation: Finding a True Sexual Identity

2. Therapy with Sexually Abused Males


FOR MORE INFORMATION GO TO http://www.joekort.com/talks.htm 

 


4. What do you get when you cross a therapist and a comedian?

A Therapedian! I was talking to my 11-year old-nephew about my starting to do stand up and he looked at me and said, "Hmmm, you are a therapist and and comedian that makes you a therapian!" I thought that was very clever and use it at the start of my act.

In the summer of 2008 I took an 8 week course at a local comedy club doing stand-up comedy. I have always used humor in my presentations, workshops and even in the therapy room at times to help people cope with some of their issues.

As many of you know who have read my books and articles and listened to me at my talks I was raised in a very neglectful and abusive environment where there was little affection, love and nurturing.

The one good thing that did occur from my family was lots of humor. That is, perhaps, the most positive thing I recieved from my childhood and it has served me well today. I find humor in almost all of my own personal struggles as well as in the most difficult life situations.

Given all of this I hope you will watch my comedy act and take it in the spirit it is meant. I hope it makes you laugh. I have more coming as I do various clubs in amateur night shows.

Watch the video at http://joekort.blogspot.com/2008/11/dude-im-not-jewish.html  or go to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dj74Q6RqIcY  



5. Book Review: Male Sexuality: Why Women Don't Understand It--And Men Don't Either

                                                 by Michael Bader

I reviewed author Michael Bader's first book in 2004, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies which can be found at my website here http://www.joekort.com/articles20.htm

Now he turns his attention solely onto men and continues his thinking about why men behave and fantasize in the sexual ways they do.

He writes in his book:

This is a book about the value of understanding (male sexuality). It assumes that when we oversimplify male sexuality or demonize any form of it, everyone suffers. It assumes that when men understand themselves, they feel less shame, and that when women understand men, they fel more connecte to men and more compassionate. And it assumes that when both men and women understand how the world shapes and hurts their sexuality, they are more equipped to change it.

Bader also is inclusive talking about gay and bisexual men's sexual behaviors as well. I really enjoy the way he explains the reasons for men's sexual expressions and have used his work in helping my clients feel better--and get better- around their sexual issues.

 

 

6. Joe's Books and Products


Joe's PRODUCTS

Visit my new products website http://www.joekortclasses.com/default.asp?id=3040 and you will find everything from workshops I am doing, classes I am facilitating as well as recorded mp3's and podcasts for you to listen to if you are unable to attedn any of my events live.

I hope you enjoy them and that they provide an educational resource for you from any of my specialties. I have been a therapist since 1985 and have had numerous trainings in each of my specialties along with having worked with hundreds of folks who have let me into their lives and learn with them what works and what doesn't. Hopefully these classes and recordings will do the same for you!

I am working on this page all the time and adding to so please return to it and see if there are things there you would like to order including some free things as well.

The newest product I have created is an autoresponder about straight men who have sex with men. After you email the address below you will recieve several emails telling you the top 5 reasons straight men choose to have sex with other men.

For a free and confidential report on the most common questions received about Straight Guise sign up here ---->JoeKortlmsw-362263@autocontactor.com

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Joe's BOOKS

10 Smart Things

Gay Men Can Do

To Improve their lives

 

Alyson Books, 2003

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Foreign translations of Joe's First Book

"10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives" was originally published in 2003.

In 2004 it was translated into German.

In 2005 it was translated into Spanish.

Order at Joe's Books


 

10 Smart Things

Gay Men Can Do

To Find Real

Love

Alyson Books, 2006

Order at Joe's Books


Gay Affirmative Therapy

for the Straight Clinician:

The Essential Guide

WW Norton Books, 2008

Order at Joe's Books





 


Mending A Shattered Heart:
A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts

A Gentle Press, 2008

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This book contains a chapter by psychotherapist Joe Kort on straight men who have sex with men in heterosexual marriages.

Straight Guise: Is My Partner Gay?
By Joe Kort, LMSW

It offers the female partners and spouses a guide and insight into what to do and how to handle these types of situations.

For more information Click Here

Click on Joe's Library to purchase these books.


Autographed Books

You can purchase an autographed copy of Joe's books by using a credit card or sending a check, money order by clicking here.


If you want to book a signing or workshop anywhere in your area please feel free to contact Joe: joekort@joekort.com or 248-399-7317.




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