Dr. Kort writes for Attitude Magazine in the UK.

Gay men and Open Relationships

Dear Attitude,

I was having sex with my boyfriend one night when he drunkenly suggested getting a third party in for a threesome – and I went bananas. I’ve always made it clear that I would never, ever consider it. I know that it often splits relationships up, and I just find it a bit degrading that gay couples always seem to have to get a third person in. So I had a real go at him about it. But the thing is, I actually like the idea. I’m just nervous that the guy will be fitter than me, with a better body and cock and that I’ll feel insecure and my boyfriend will realise what he’s missing and go off with other guys. I’m very confused and not sure what to do, or what to tell him.

Carl, Nottingham

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Gay Men on Oral Sex

Dear Attitude,

I’d really like to find a boyfriend but I’m not into having guys go down on me. I know it’s kind of weird but I just don’t like it. Every man I’ve ever had sex with seems to want that more than anything else and I have started to feel insecure about it. I find it cold and unpleasant and slightly uncomfortable, and I don’t feel like I should do something I’m not into. But on the other hand, aren’t all gay guys obsessed with blowjobs? Am I right or just in the minority?

Paul, Brighton

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